There are 5 reasons good women lose good men!
It doesn’t seem likely that this would happen…
But it does…
Unfortunately, it happens more often than you think!
Think it can’t happen to you?
IT COULD!
Everybody thinks it can’t happen to them until it does.
How do I know?
…because it happened to me.
Buckle your seat belt… You’re about to discover 5 reasons good women lose good men!
The REAL TRUTH!
Why Good Women Lose Good Men!
Maybe it will shock you…
Maybe it won’t….
It will certainly deepen your understanding about men…
Good men in particular!
…and reveal 5 reasons good women lose them.
I can’t proclaim to be a good man myself, but from a good woman’s perspective I’m told I qualify.
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If you ever wondered why a good man would end a relationship with a good woman…
This is for you!
If you’re in a relationship with a good man and want to know how to keep him…
This will benefit you greatly!
If you’re dating a nice guy and you think maybe he’s too nice and NOT challenging enough for you…
This will give you pause!
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Sit back…
You’re about to discover 5 reasons good women lose good men!
You ready?
Ok…
Good!
How Good Women Lose Good Men
Charles was a nice guy!
It’s the thing that attracted his girlfriend, Nicole.
But Nicole would often find herself taking advantage of his kindness.
Charles would do almost anything to please her…and Nicole knew it.
But Nicole didn’t know the secret on how to get and keep a man!
Like many others, Nicole mistook his kindness for weakness.
Nine months into the relationship, Charles ended it.
He had grown weary of Nicole’s repeated attempts to take advantage of his kindness.
Nicole later discovered what so many others before her had come to know.
Charles was nice, NOT WEAK!
You have the benefit of finding out now, what it took Nicole years to discover.
After overcoming her anger and coming to terms with the breakup, she began to make this discovery.
She had finally reached the point of understanding she needed to take responsibility for her own actions.
But Charles was gone!
Never to return…
She knew Charles loved her,
But for Charles, there were red flags he could no longer ignore.
Nicole regretted how she took advantage of Charles at every turn.
She made a pact that day to never take advantage of anyone, ever again.
Charles had finally rubbed off on her.
She began to realize Charles was much more than just a nice guy.
Charles was a GOOD MAN!
Most women don’t understand the difference until it’s too late.
But was it too late for Nicole?
She was determined to find out how to get her man back!
Nice guys are boring…
Aren’t they?
Not challenging enough and can be easily taken advantage of.
That’s what Nicole used to think about Charles.
She didn’t appreciate him.
She took him for granted.
She didn’t realize…
Good men can be nice guys too…
But not all nice guys are good men.
She wasn’t able to distinguish between the two.
Isn’t that tragic?
I think so…
Why Good Men Leave Good Women
A good man can be difficult to love!
If you don’t understand how he thinks, you will lose him.
His decision making process comes from a different perspective!
Good men make decisions based on principles as opposed to the idea of just being nice.
That’s the difference!
You’ll find it difficult to love him if you’re a woman who has to have her way.
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Nicole wanted Charles to be disrespectful to the mother of his daughter.
Nicole didn’t like her because she thought she still wanted Charles.
But Charles believed in treating people fairly.
He was adamant about doing the right thing.
The right thing was often the nice thing…and that infuriated Nicole.
To her Charles was soft, too easy going, too nice.
….”A NICE GUY”
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Despite Nicole’s demands…
Charles never mistreated his child’s mother.
…which led Nicole to believe Charles still had feelings for her.
His commitment to be respectful to everyone was lost to Nicole.
Can you imagine how frustrating this was for her?
In time, the situation became more intense.
Nicole started questioning her love for Charles and his love for her.
She raised so much he** about the situation until Charles had enough.
Charles began to tire from Nicole’s constant attacks and as a result, ended the relationship.
TRAGIC!
Isn’t it?
Let’s look the 5 most notable reasons good women lose good men.
5 Reasons Good Women Lose Good Men
1. She doesn’t know he’s a good man!
- Sometimes a woman doesn’t know she has a good man.
- She’ll misinterpret his kindness and make the mistake of trying to take advantage of him.
- The idea of a good man may vary from woman to woman.
- In Nicole’s case her idea of a good man, was one she could control.
2. She tries to control him!
- Trying to control a good man is a big mistake!
- A good man will not allow himself to be controlled by anyone.
- He has his own mind.
- There’s only so much he will take.
- When the idea of losing you becomes secondary to his unwillingness of being controlled, you will lose him.
3. He is difficult to love!
- A good man can be difficult to love.
- His decisions are often made from the core values and principles he has adopted in his life.
4. She takes his kindness for weakness!
- Good men are often kind-hearted people.
- Some women will take his kindness for weakness.
- It takes strength to be kind to people who don’t deserve it.
- Sometimes a woman will see this as a sign of weakness, not realizing the strength it takes to do this.
- This often drives a wedge between them and this usually doesn’t end well.
5. She tries to manipulate him!
- Who wants to be manipulated?
- Absolutely no one…
- When a good man senses you’re trying to manipulate him, it’s the beginning of the end of the relationship.
Maybe you don’t see yourself being described as this person.
Maybe you do!
The point here is it’s hard to find a good man and if you have one, you certainly don’t want to lose him.