It’s hard to believe that the well intended dating advise grandma gave you is keeping you single! BUT IT IS… You’re about to discover 5 traditional dating rules that keep women single.
Are men surprised you’re single?
What they really want to know is…
Why?
or…
What’s wrong with you?
I’ve dated women I couldn’t believe were single…
Those were the two questions that came to mind.
After dating them, I found…
They were stuck…
Stuck in the mindset of being…
“Old School Traditional Daters in a New School World”…
…they didn’t know how to navigate the two.
Do you know what an old school traditional dater is?
It’s the woman who waits at the car door when it’s freezing outside because the man is supposed to open the door for her.
I’m a gentleman, but come on…
This is why traditional old school daters are increasingly finding themselves single..
If you know you’re beautiful and you have a great attitude but you’re still single…
This is for you!
If you have a great job and you’re a great person, but you’re having trouble keeping a man.
You’ve come to the right place!
If you know you’re a good catch, but men are falling far short of your expectations?
This is especially for you!
The reality is…
…it’s a different world…
…with different rules.
Browse the web and you’ll find hundreds of new dating sites popping up.
It indicates more women are literally taking control of their own dating destiny.
They’re no longer passive participants.
The strict rules of traditional dating doesn’t work in the 21st century.
The new age woman is usually….
- Working
- Making Her Own Money
- Running Her Own Businesses, etc.
If you’ve been paying attention, this is not big news.
You see the shift, but you think the shift doesn’t change anything.
But it does…
The problem is when women don’t know how to blend the two!
Women who like the perks traditional dating has to offer, but live in the “women rule the world era” will have a hard time keeping a man.
How Traditional Dating Keeps Women Single
You want men to buy you flowers…
Take you to dinner…
Buy drinks…
…and essentially pay for everything.
At the same time…
You don’t want to cook for him…
You don’t want to do the work to keep him.
You’re not making the bedroom feel like paradise.
So what’s the trade off?
There’s clearly something wrong with this picture.
This is the 5 traditional dating rules keeping women single attitude!
You want to be treated like a Queen with no King…
It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out why this doesn’t work.
The Traditional Dating Attitude
Think it’s unladylike for a woman to be aggressive when it comes to dating?
Or…
Do you think it’s inappropriate to pursue a man?
Maybe?
But more women are taking full advantage of the opportunity…
…and guess what?
Men aren’t complaining.
Women are no longer hesitant or afraid to go after the man they want.
The problem is…
You know you’re a good catch.
You look good…
You’re successful…
You are a beautiful woman with a great attitude, etc.
You don’t have to adjust to the times!
You feel like…if a man doesn’t recognize your awesomeness…
…he’s the one who’s missing out…
That’s the attitude a lot of women with the traditional dating mentality have.
That’s why they’re still single!
The New Dating Landscape
Men have choices…he can either pursue you and face possible rejection.
Or…
Choose to date the woman who has made it clear she’s interested in him.
What option do you think he’ll choose?
That’s what you’re up against…
I know it’s a hard pill to swallow, but it’s true.
…and it gets worse or maybe better…
…depending on how you look at it.
There is ample opportunity for you to date any man you want, but you have to understand the rules of the game.
It’s a matter of understanding your role in this new era of dating and learning how to customize it to fit your idea of what it should be.
5 Traditional Dating Rules Keeping Women Single
Here are (5) traditional dating rules you may want to consider or re-consider.
Rule #1
A Man Should Always Make The First Move
- Gone are the days where men feel an expectation to make the first move.
- Women who find it inappropriate to approach or pursue a man are increasingly finding themselves single.
- Times have changed and so has the rules!
- For every (1) woman who’s unwilling to make the first move on a man…there are (7) other women who don’t have a problem with it.
Rule #2
Men Should Always Pay When We Go Out On A Date
- I get it…
- You think he’s supposed to take you out and foot the bill every time?
- It’s what men are supposed to do.
- But it’s not 1975 anymore….
- There are more women in the workforce than ever before…
- It’s not like women are trying to be housewives anymore.
- In some cases, women are making more money than men.
- If a man has the choice of dating a woman who he knows will never even look at the dinner bill or one who’s at least open to sharing the cost…
- Who do you think he’ll choose?
Rule #3
The 90 Day Rule
- Who’s got time for that?
- Who wants to wait 90 days for anything!
- Everyone hates the 90 day probation period when they get hired on a new job?
- You’re on your best behavior for 90 days.
- When those 90 days are up and you get your raise.
- Best behavior practices go out the window!
- Besides….
- What if you wait 90 days before becoming intimate with him and it’s not satisfying for him or you?
- Then what?
Rule #4
Never Call Or Text Him First
- Huh?
- Who does that?
- What does that do?
- Who made that rule anyway?
- Do women still do that?
- It makes no sense…
- This is where the games begin.
- Trust me…
- Nobody wants to be the one who has to call you in order to talk to you.
- Keep waiting for him to call and he’ll be calling the woman who calls him too.
Rule #5
Never Say Yes To Last Minute Plans
- You don’t have to say yes every time.
- But keep in mind, if you’re not saying yes…someone else may be.
- Is that what you really want?
- Try to be flexible.
- You shouldn’t compromise yourself, but be open to spontaneity.
- Loosen up your grip on those old traditional dating rules and have fun.
- It will help you get and keep the man you want.