About Me

Hi I’m Clay,

I always thought Clay was such an unusual name growing up, but as time went on I began to like it.

Especially after finding out I was named after the greatest boxer of all time; Cassius Clay.

Awesome… right!

 

One day I had this bright idea of sharing everything I had ever learned about dating and relationships with the world.

I’m sure you can imagine how intimidating it is share your shortfalls and vulnerabilities with people who will inaccurately judge you because of them.

The dynamics of every relationship is different, but they all stem from some very common threads.

You’re about to discover what to look for:

  • When you’re being cheated on
  • How women are able to control and captivate a man
  • How an average guy can get any woman he wants
  • How to find love online
  • Why both men and women cheat

It is a privilege to share my dating insights with you as I hope you will find value in them.

…More About Me

I was born and raised 10 miles east of Chicago, IL. in a small town called East Chicago, IN.

Ever heard of it?

Probably not…

It is the place during the Prohibition Era where gangsters like Al Capone, John Dillenger and their organized crime buddies would go to elude Chicago Law Enforcement.

Even though Chicago, Illinois, a major metropolitan city was literally in my back yard, as a youngster, I rarely explored outside of the East Chicago, IN city limits.

During that time dating opportunities were very limited.

Then came the internet!

I didn’t realize how much of an impact it would make on dating, but it literally changed the way we meet people.

I created this site, in part, for that very reason.

…My Next Phase

Many of my relationships were pretty casual.

I had more than my share of beautiful women in my life.

Some who hurt me dearly, some I hurt, some I loved and some who grew to love me.

The upside of this is that I’ve gained some enormously valuable insight from my experiences.

Many of which has caused me to fall into the role of relationship therapist for my friends.

I am not a licensed relationship therapist or a relationship expert, but my experience gives me a very unique perspective.

…Where Am I Now?

I’ve dated my share of sexy women.

Lost women I loved and hurt women who loved me.

Going through heartache teaches you some fundamental lessons about love and relationships.

Many of which I will share with you.

I’ve been fortunate enough to learn:

  • Love is more practical and less emotional.
  • Love is not possession.
  • Love is more giving than receiving.
  • Giving is one of the primary characteristics of love.
  • Love places no restrictions nor will it require you to change.

The Evolution Of Dating

I understand how it feels to be vulnerable.

The paradox of being in love is to remain strong for both men and women.

I’ve learned lots of lessons about dating, about cheating partners and about love.

I am passionate about helping people succeed in their relationships!

Thank you for the opportunity to share my insights and experiences with you…

I pray you will see the value in them.

You’ll get information on everything from:

  • Knowing what to look for when you’re being cheated on
  • How a woman can captivate a man
  • How a guy can get any woman he wants
  • How to find love online
  • Why both men and women cheat

This is my passion and the thing that energizes me.

I appreciate the opportunity to share with you!

You will find within this site, post(s) that will motivate you, inspire you and challenge you in life and especially in relationships.


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  1. this is slightly hillarious but intriguing, as i read several of these articles Im lead to believe you are talking or referring to me, but dont want to assume so why dont you share with the world whom you are referencing without mentioning any names but describe an incident you experienced with them, that way ill know for sure. by the way great Job!

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