It’s hard to judge yourself!
You’re biased.
We all are…
It’s not your intention to be a bad girlfriend.
Nobody tries to be.
The idea of being a good girlfriend varies from person to person.
Your environment has a big impact.
What you think is good, may be bad to someone else.
The bottom line is we’re about to tell you what being a good girlfriend is all about.
Bad girls are fun, but good girls are the ones men marry.
That’s the idea here…
It’s the reason Gina wanted to know how to be a good girlfriend.
I have to tell you, I’m in my 50’s.
I used to like fast cars, fast money and bad girls.
I still like fast cars….
But the other two cost way more than I’m willing to pay.
Fast money corrupts!
Statistics show 70% of lottery winners file bankruptcy within 5 years of receiving a large financial windfall.
Nearly one-third of lottery winners eventually declare bankruptcy!
Get the idea?
Bad girls are often insecure!
They don’t appear to be, but let’s take a closer look…
Most of them turn bad because they’ve been hurt.
The bad girl image is to protect them from being hurt again and to hide their insecurities.
Why Try To Be A Good Girlfriend
MEN ARE GOING TO CHEAT ANYWAY, RIGHT?
Lots of women feel that way.
But being a good girlfriend is more about treating yourself well than it is about anything else.
The golden rule is…
The things you do to or for another person, you do to or for yourself.
But most women are afraid to open up and be vulnerable.
The idea of being taken advantage of keeps them from putting their heart on the line.
Being a good girlfriend is not an appealing proposition after being hurt.
The perfect man can come along and she will find a way to run him off based on her past experience.
Take a look at yourself…
Are you the woman I’m describing?
The Advantage of Being A Good Girlfriend
Isn’t it obvious how being a good girlfriend can work to your advantage?
Maybe not…
In a society where men are typically more reluctant to marry than women,
maybe you think trying to be a good girlfriend is not worth the effort.
I beg to differ…
Good girlfriends are the ones men marry!
So, what are the qualities a good girlfriend?
Darrin from Chicago said, She was the best girlfriend I ever had.
I had no idea how I grew to love her…
before I knew it…
I had fallen deeply in love with her.
Does being a good girlfriend mean you do everything your guy wants you to do?
Of course not…
In fact, some things my girlfriend didn’t do for me made me respect her more.
Want a man to give you the world?
You’ve landed on the right page!
Want him to forget about every old girlfriend he’s dated?
You’ve come to the right place!
If you’re ready for him to get down on one knee and ask for your hand in marriage…
You’re in the right place!
Qualities Of A Good Girlfriends
What makes a man fall in love with one woman and not the other?
What makes one woman have several men propose to her and another woman have trouble getting a man?
The answer is some women know how to be good girlfriends.
The dictionary defines the word “Good” as:
“Having the qualities required for a particular role.
Some women have it, some don’t.
For the women who don’t…
Consider the benefits of being a good girlfriend.
A Girlfriend Men Never Want To Lose
The sad part about my story is that I share it with tons of regret…
I regret taking the woman I fell in love with for granted.
She was a good girlfriend, but the truth is…
I was young..
…or should I say, young minded.
I was the guy who turned good girls onto bad ones.
Not proud of it, but at the time I didn’t realize what I was doing.
I’ve had lots of girlfriends, but none like her.
I can’t remember the names of many of them right now…
But her name is one I will never forget.
Almost every woman I’ve dated made the relationship all about them, except her.
She was different!
It was more to it than how I felt about her.
It’s was how I felt about myself when I was with her.
That’s the mark of being a good girlfriend.
The fact that good girlfriends ultimately make good wives never entered my mind.
Boy, did I screw up…
She was a rare commodity.
Loyal, considerate, trustworthy, etc.
Three (3) qualities every man looks for in a woman.
She had them all..
But she had much more than that.
That’s what I’m about to share with you.
Pleasing a man on the physical level does not automatically make you a good girlfriend.
I don’t want to minimize the importance of satisfying a man in the bedroom but it doesn’t make you wifey material.
…and that’s the ultimate goal,
Isn’t it?
No woman wants to be “just a good girlfriend”.
Most women consider themselves to be “good women”…
…and they’re probably right.
Being a good woman does not equate to being a good girlfriend.
The roles are different.
You can be a good woman and not understand how to be a good girlfriend.
But, you can’t be a good girlfriend without being a good woman.
Being a good girlfriend starts from within.
There is an honesty, a genuineness, a sense of peace that good girlfriends possess.
It is this that every man would search diligently to find.
I’m not speaking as an authority on the subject, but I have dated more than my share of women.
Good ones and plenty of bad ones too.
With my experience came an uncanny ability to identify the good ones from the bad ones.
I’m sharing with you what it is that made the good ones so good…
…and why the bad ones, (who by the way thought they were good) almost ruined my trust in women.
Nobody taught you the ABC’s on how to be a good girlfriend.
But if you take from some of the ideas I’ve presented here you’ll be far ahead of the others.
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- What can you do to be a better girlfriend?
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